More on Growth

Okay, so I declared 2025 "The Year of Growth." But what does that actually mean? It's more than just a trendy buzzword or a self-help cliché. For me, "growth" is about a fundamental shift in how I approach life, a commitment to evolving and expanding in ways that align with my values and aspirations.

Think of it like this: Imagine a tree. It starts as a tiny seed, buried in the darkness, facing challenges and obstacles as it pushes its way towards the light. It weathers storms, adapts to changing seasons, and constantly reaches for new heights. Its growth isn't always linear or predictable; there are twists, turns, and even the occasional broken branch. But through it all, it becomes stronger, more resilient, and more deeply rooted in the earth.

That's the kind of growth I'm striving for. It's about:

• Expanding My Horizons: Stepping outside my comfort zone, exploring new ideas, and challenging my assumptions. It's about seeking out diverse perspectives, learning from my mistakes, and embracing the unknown with curiosity and courage.

• Deepening My Connections: Nurturing my relationships with intention, building a supportive community, and fostering genuine connections with others. It's about recognizing the interconnectedness of all things and contributing to a world where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued.

• Unleashing My Creativity: Tapping into my "kaleidoscope mind" and expressing myself through various mediums, whether it's writing, art, music, or technology. It's about finding my voice, sharing my unique perspective, and inspiring others to do the same.

• Embracing My Authentic Self: Shedding the masks I've worn to fit in and embracing my true identity as a gay autistic man. It's about accepting my strengths and weaknesses, my quirks and complexities, and living a life that reflects my values.

• Making a Difference: Using my skills and passions to contribute to a more just and equitable world. It's about advocating for social change, promoting inclusivity, and leaving a positive impact on the world around me.

But as I mentioned in my previous post, growth isn't always easy. It can be messy, uncomfortable, and sometimes even painful. It requires facing my fears, challenging my limitations, and being willing to let go of old patterns and beliefs that no longer serve me.

It's like that baby bird struggling to break free from its shell. It takes effort, determination, and a willingness to embrace the struggle. But the reward is the freedom to fly, to soar to new heights, and to experience the world from a different perspective.

So, this year, I'm embracing the challenge, the messiness, and the uncertainty of growth. I'm ready to shed my old skin, spread my wings, and discover the full potential of who I can become.